Toothless

Have you ever had surgery? What for?

I know having a tooth extracted is very minor surgery, but nonetheless, it’s what I had done this week. I had an infection that had spread to my sinus. Horrible!

I tried to avoid antibiotics. Once the culprit (tooth) was gone, I finished a course of steroid nasal spray, and kept up regular intake of paracetamol and ibuprofen but none of that helped at all. I couldn’t cope any longer, so I used the back-up prescription for antibiotics. Four days later, I’m feeling almost 100%.

Thankfully, I’ve never had any other type of surgery! I’ve been extremely lucky with my health down through the years – except for many minor ailments, but you don’t want to get me started on that!

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At least I got some reading done while I was under the weather.

Do you read? What’s your favourite genre?

Would you like a peek inside the pages of my fictional novel? You never know, it might just be your cup of tea!

Set in a gossipy small town in Ireland at a time when marriage is for keeps and sexuality is repressed, Secrets in the Babby House is a family saga over three decades that starts in 1956. It is a story of love, deception, and stolen diaries filled with sins and secrets.

Flossie Lynch is heartbroken when her only love, Frank Connolly, marries another. So when John O’Malley—the well-off catch of the parish—proposes to her, she resigns herself to a marriage of convenience, hoping to learn to love him.
For John, Flossie is mostly a respectable wife and caring mother to their son—and the perfect façade for his dark secret. But bloody Frank Connolly and his blackmailing wife are making things difficult for him.
Another victim of his jealous wife’s abusive behaviour, Frank stays in his loveless marriage for the sake of his two wee girls. He turns his childhood fort into a babby house to give them a refuge from their cruel mother. But for Frank, there is no refuge.
When Flossie rekindles her friendship with Frank, she tries desperately to save him from a life of misery and promises to always look out for his daughters. As the two star-crossed lovers near a second chance, tragedy strikes, forcing Flossie to make good on her promise—while attempting to protect her husband and son.
But as long as there’s a Connolly with a score to settle, there is no escape from the past and no promises for the future.

Positivity

Are there things you try to practice daily to live a more sustainable lifestyle?

I go through phases of being very strict with myself regarding daily practices. Then there are times when I wane. For example, taking my multivitamins, daily walks, writing, and eating only healthy foods.

The one thing I never forget to practice daily is gratitude. I know I’m very fortunate. I have a lot to be grateful for in my life, and I won’t let myself forget it.

I’ve been practicing gratitude and positivity for years and I firmly believe that this mindset attracts the good things in life.

We all have days when it’s hard to think positive, and that’s totally fine. I don’t think it’s healthy to suppress feelings of disappointment, sadness and worry, but when we cling to these feelings and stay in a negative mindset, it can be difficult to pull ourselves out of it.

We all know people who are just never happy. Relatively healthy people, with no obvious worries (we all have some worries), but these people complain, give out, and whinge about everybody and everything. They are so used to their negative mindset that they’re stuck in it. They’ve forgotten how to be grateful for what they have and constantly focus on what they don’t have. They often begrudge the happiness of others and seem to take pleasure in putting them down.

I find it hard to spend time around negative people. I don’t mean people who are having a bad day, or need a shoulder to cry on; that’s normal. But the doom and gloom every day? No, thank you!


A positive mindset was crucial during the many stages of writing Secrets in the Babby House.

Would you like a peek inside the pages? You never know, it might just be your cup of tea!

Set in a gossipy small town in Ireland at a time when marriage is for keeps and sexuality is repressed, Secrets in the Babby House is a family saga over three decades that starts in 1956. It is a story of love, deception, and stolen diaries filled with sins and secrets.

Jelly and Ice cream

Daily writing prompt
Which food, when you eat it, instantly transports you to childhood?

Top of my list for this one is jelly and ice cream. My mother made jelly nearly every Sunday for us. Sometimes we had it with ice cream, other times it was Instant Whip. Both were delicious!

She set the jelly in a large green glass bowl and served it in little matching ones. I actually searched for them on the internet and voila!

These bowls are tiny compared to the dessert bowls we have now. The portions are bigger these days. How did that happen?


My childhood memories and listening to stories of times gone by, inspired me to write Secrets in the Babby House.

Would you like a peek inside the pages? You never know, it might just be your cup of tea!

Set in a gossipy small town in Ireland at a time when marriage is for keeps and sexuality is repressed, Secrets in the Babby House is a family saga over three decades that starts in 1956. It is a story of love, deception, and stolen diaries filled with sins and secrets.


Crushed

Write about your first crush.

I’ll never forget how my first crush totally crushed all the fanciable feelings I had for him.

I was aged 11 and I was in 5th class. It was our first day back after the summer holidays and also the first time for the boys and girls to be mixed. We weren’t used to being with boys, you see. We didn’t mix at all in school. Even in the playground, we had to remain on our own side of the fence. So, it was quite a big change for us.

Our teacher decided that it would be a great idea to sit a boy beside a girl. Throw us in at the deep end, sure!

I had a massive crush on one particular boy. He was gorgeous. As the teacher began picking names out of two boxes (boy & girl), I silently prayed that I would get to sit beside Crush.

I couldn’t believe it when our names were picked out together. I was ecstatic! Crush and I made our way to our assigned desk. My heart thumped and the butterflies fluttered softly in my stomach.

I turned to Crush with a sweet loving smile on my face but he had his elbow on the desk with his head resting in his hand, facing away from me. I got the feeling that he wasn’t as impressed with the arrangement as I was.

I felt highly insulted. After a couple of hours, he relaxed a bit but still no engagement. He’ll come round, I thought.

When he began picking his nose and inspecting his findings, something inside me died. Did he just eat that? Every day he did this and not once did he look at me or speak to me.

I was never more relieved when our teacher rearranged the seating. I ended up sitting beside a lovely girl called Angela.

The nursery rhyme that I’d learned as a child played over and over in my head for weeks after. “Frogs and snails and puppy dog’s tails; that’s what little boys are made of.”

It took me quite a few years to fancy a boy again after that.

Thank you for reading.

Do you read fiction?

Would you like a peek inside the pages of my fictional novel? You never know, it might just be your cup of tea!

Set in a gossipy small town in Ireland at a time when marriage is for keeps and sexuality is repressed, Secrets in the Babby House is a family saga over three decades that starts in 1956. It is a story of love, deception, and stolen diaries filled with sins and secrets.