The Jumble Sale #100DaysOfOldDays

Day 61 #100DaysOfOldDays

The jumble sales in the early 80’s, as I remember them, were the equivalent of a trip to Mr Price or Penny’s today. There was something about a jumble sale that you just don’t get at a car boot sale or from browsing in a charity shop—or Mr Price and Penny’s.  

A jumble sale took place only once or twice a year, so it was exciting, especially for children. It was a chance to have new things that didn’t cost half of your father’s wages. It was mostly second-hand goods on sale, but some things were brand new costing a fraction of their shop price. The proceeds would go to the church or a local charity.

The earliest ones I remember were held in the hall behind the Church of Ireland. I particularly remember the Christmas ones. They would be advertised for a couple of weeks beforehand; on posters in shop windows and in the local newspaper, The Celt

We’d be gathering our pennies in anticipation for the big spend. Doing jobs around the house to earn extra.  

We’d arrive at the hall to join the queue that would have started to form. You had to be early if you wanted to get anything worthwhile. People hopped from foot to foot to keep warm, even though they would’ve been well wrapped up in their winter coats and hats & scarves. The mammies would chatter among themselves, about Christmas and the foreseeable bargains at the jumble sale. Their puffs of breath forming little clouds in the frosty air. We, the children, would play around in the dark, scaring each other with ghost stories about the nearby graveyard in the ruins of the old church; Lord Lisgar and the headless horseman, banshees and werewolves.  

As soon as the doors would open everyone would rush in and scurry to their favourite stall. The mammies would usually aim for the wardrobe section; the children for the toys and bric-a-brac. There was something appealing about the scent of old books and the musty whiff of clothes and shoes that smelt like they’d been retrieved from the attic.

Part of our Christmas shopping was done at these jumble sales. An ornament for Mammy, a book or a game for Daddy, which was really for us. 

Sometimes we’d have money left to buy a bun at the cake stand or a slice of homemade bread covered with gooseberry or plum jam. Sometimes we’d just walk slowly past the cakes, looking at them, our mouths watering with the smell of icing sugar. The Christmas bakes hummed with nutmeg and cinnamon. Some of the kinder ladies behind the stand would sell a bun for a penny, if that’s all you had left.  

Things sold quite quickly at the jumble sales, with very little left behind.

The things I remember buying at a jumble sale: old annuals—Judy, Mandy, Bunty, Twinkle. Any I didn’t already have. Enid Blyton books, Black Beauty, The Little Match Girl, a white sparkly belt, a hat, handbags, half-empty bottles of nail polish and perfume, dolls, nice pens, crayons, colouring books with just a few pages coloured in, playing cards.

I remember buying things like fancy little boxes or pots, just to put stuff in. Mam would say, “Oh that’s lovely”… when really she meant, “Where are you going with that oul thing?” 

The popularity of charity shops did away with jumble sales. I hear about cake sales now and again, but they’re not a patch on the old-style jumble sales. Or is it because we look at things differently through our childhood eyes? 

Lucy’s drawing today!

Sweet Shops #100DaysOfOldDays

Day 60 #100DaysOfOldDays

Mrs Fulton’s and Francie McDonald’s; the two shops in Bailieborough that bring back fond memories for many grown-ups from that era.

I bet every town has a sweet shop they remember with fondness.  

Mrs Fulton had her little shop about a five minute walk from town close to a couple of housing estates; Lake View and Drumbannon. We had to pass the shop on our way home from school. We didn’t have money to spend every day buy when we did it was a treat. It may have been 2p—or 5p if we were lucky. 10p was a very good day and it was likely given to you secretly by your Granny. In my case it was Uncle Johnny who sneaked the money into our hands when Auntie Ellen wasn’t watching. But I think she knew.

We could but a bag of ha’penny sweets with 5p. Or an ice-lolly with a bag of crisps. I remember buying crisps for 2p. We bought Black Jacks, Fruit Salads, Golfball chewing gums; two for a penny. Candy lipstick and whistles, penny bars, cola bottles, jelly babies, gobstoppers, milk teeth (my favourite).

Ice-cream cones weren’t affordable for a mother with five or six children (or more), but in Mrs Fulton’s you could buy a slice of ice-cream between two wafers. She’d cut it to whatever size the child could afford.

She was very kind and had great patience for us all down through the years. She knew every child’s name too. If a child among a group was the only one with no money, she’d give him something.

Francie McDonald was the very same with the troves of children that went into his shop. Francie had a glass-top counter where we could see the boxes of sweets on display. Even though he was almost completely blind, he knew exactly where every sweet was in the shop. The shelves behind him were stacked with jars and boxes of sweets too. It didn’t matter how long it took for you to decide what to buy with your 5p, he waited. “One cola bottle…one chewing gum…no two chewing gums…no just one…and a penny bar…annnnd…annnnd…another chewing gum.”

He never complained and never uttered a cross word to any child. Often he’d have to gather a pile of ha’pennies from his glass counter where a small child would reach up and drop their money on the counter.

Francie had every sweet that existed! Wonderful memories of him and Mrs Fulton!

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Thank you Lucy for your drawing of Francie’s sweet shop.

Homebirths & Twilight Sleep #100DaysOfOldDays

Day 59 #100DaysOfOldDays

Imagine what it was like for women giving birth before there was gas and air, tens machines, epidural, antibiotics, the anti-D injection, c-section—sometimes elective—and all other types of pain relief that’s available today. Did prenatal care exist a hundred years ago? 

Up until the late 18th century a midwife had complete control of assisting women in childbirth. Male doctors had little to no knowledge of the process involved during labour.  

By the 1900’s home births with midwife assistance were still the norm, even though the Rotunda Hospital in Dublin was an established maternity hospital. You’d be a long time getting from Cork to Dublin on the ass and cart. You’d be like Mary and Joseph; stopping along the way to give birth!  

In 1914, ‘twilight sleep’ was a pain relief method that involved anaesthetising the mother with morphine and scopolamine. It was a popular choice by women because it put them to sleep during the whole labour. The problem was there was a high risk of haemorrhage and of the drug being transferred to the babies.  

In the 1920’s when ‘twilight sleep’ was still popular, some medical doctors believed that a natural birth was rare. Medical intervention dilated the cervix, episiotomies were performed, unnecessary forceps were used. Women in a hospital setting had no say over what drugs they were given or what procedures they were put through. ‘Twilight sleep’ phased out during the 60’s/70’s when women became more concerned about their lack of involvement in their own labour and having no recollection of giving birth. 

In the 1950’s homebirths were still widespread in Ireland but by the 60’s hospital births had become more popular. More hospitals offered maternity care and people had better access to transport. The ass and cart weren’t as much depended on as before. 

This woman’s article written in The Journal in 2019, is appalling and makes me wonder why any woman wanted to go anywhere near a hospital to have their baby. Were the midwives scarce? Did it become unacceptable to have a home birth?   

She said, ‘All the mothers were terrified of the doctors and matron, so we never asked any questions’. She gave birth in the Rotunda hospital in 1969. Read her story here! Not for the squeamish.  

Surely, we have come a long way since then!  

While all these procedures and pain relief options are available today, there’s still many women who opt for a completely natural labour; some choosing home births under the care of a midwife. 

At least women have more control over what happens to them during labour. They have more choices. And of course, the one very important thing that we do have now that was missing down through the ages, is the father’s attendance at the birth.  

Lucy drew a newborn baby today.

Pot, Kettle #100DaysOfOldDays

Day 58 #100DaysOfOldDays

A fun post today for Charli Mills’ 99-word Story Challenge.

She calls me black; I say the same back. 

She’s older than me, jealous you see.  

Water falls piping from my curvy spout, 

she splatters and drips from her tiny pout. 

She’s boring and plain, I’m impressive and vain. 

I’ve come so far since days of old, 

I shine like silver and sometimes gold.  

I can be tall, small, skinny or fat, 

Mrs Pot; she’s not all that. 

I whistle and sing, I let off steam, 

I invite Mr Teapot to join my team. 

Teapot and kettle on proud display, 

while Mrs Pot to her dismay, stays hidden away.