With Stephen

Is there an age or year of your life you would re-live?

This is a difficult question because there are many I’d like to re-live.

If I had to make a choice, I’d re-live my late 30s. I became the best version of myself during that time. It was also when I met my husband.

We’ve been together 20 years and we’ve just celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary. I would relive any year and age spent with him. Stephen truly is one of a kind!

When we were young!
Almost 20 years later

And still young!

On The Quay

What are you doing this evening?

Walking along the quay enjoying the nippy September air!

My Favourite Non-Camping Trip

Have you ever been camping?

Camping is high on my list of favourite things to do.

Our lovely Irish weather doesn’t make things easy for us, though.

We invested in a fabulous new tent in the summer of 2023. We only got to use it once that year – in Kerry. The weather was beautiful and we had a lovely time.

Last summer, the weather was brutal and many of the campsites didn’t open for tents.

So we went wild camping one weekend to a popular place for campers called Carrowtighe. It’s basically a field of roaming sheep alongside a small sandy beach surrounded by coastal cliffs.

A scenic spot but also very windy.

My son Tommy, his fiancée Chloe, and their young daughter Sophie, came with us, and they were using our old 4-man tent.

It took a little longer than usual to erect the tents because of the wind, but we managed. I did so much bragging about our brilliant new tent; how spacious it was, easy to erect with colour-coded poles.

I had advised Tommy and Chloe that when you look after a tent well, you’ll have it for years.

We unpacked all our stuff from the cars, blew up our airbeds, organised our kitchen, and then set up our dining area on the grass between the two tents.

We had sausages, bacon, beans, eggs, bread, and tea. As I washed up, Stephen sat in his camping chair reading, and Lucy lay in her sleeping quarters (very posh tent) resting, while Tommy, Chloe, and Sophie napped in their tent.

The wind got… well, windier!

Just as I was hanging up my dinky fairy lights, I remarked to Stephen, “It’s getting fairly blustery out there.”

I no sooner had the words out of my mouth when Lucy yelled from behind me.

She was buried under the tent. I bent down and got my back under it and pushed it up into position, but the wind fought back! It was hopeless… I wasn’t strong enough.

My fairy lights dangled in Stephen’s face threatening to strangle him as he rushed to the rescue.

He urged Lucy and me to get out. I pulled her free from the wreckage and crawled out into the fierce wind, leaving my brave husband behind.

I called my son for help. He poked his sleepy head from the flap of the perfectly stable tent I had regrettably cast aside for the fancier model.

Our old reliable tent in Carrowtighe!

“We need help. We’re down. Quickly… Stephen is trapped.”

Stephen was saved from the smothering ensemble, but there was no saving our beautiful 8-man luxury ‘robust’ tent. Bent and broken poles meant we had no choice but to take it down and pack up.

However… we did see the funny side of it! We laughed so much the whole way home.

We cooked marshmallows at our table later that evening. We took photos of them and posted them on Instagram. We just weren’t ready to tell everyone about our failed camping trip!


Favourite Topic Talks

Daily writing prompt
What topics do you like to discuss?

I enjoy talking about religion—not to promote my own beliefs, but because I’m genuinely interested in hearing how others practice their faith.

I love talking about life after death. I like listening to other people’s opinions about it. Although some people’s views on the subject freak me out a bit.

Talking about books is more enjoyable than death and religion. Our book club discussions are my favourite. It’s interesting how subjective books are. One person might find our book choice of the month boring, while another would find it a real page-turner. There has never been a book discussed that everyone loved or hated – the opinions are usually mixed.

My other favourite topic is writing. I mostly have these discussions with myself, though, unless online in forums or on social media!

And of course…. I’ll talk about any other mad stuff that crops up. It’s all research at the end of the day!

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