Thank You Great Women #100DaysOfOldDays #InternationalWomensDay

Day 24 #100DaysOfOldDays #InternationalWomensDay

When we talk about days gone by, we often call them ‘the good ole days’. We talk about the simplicity of life, being happy with our lot, less expectations. We praise the women, and how hard they worked in the home. They had many children. None of it was easy.

Life may have been simpler, but that doesn’t mean it was better.

Having a big family wasn’t necessarily a choice. Contraceptives were illegal in Ireland from 1935 until 1980. Look at how many women suffered from post-natal depression but it often went undiagnosed, or simply misunderstood. Many poor women were subjected to electric shock treatment, others stayed locked away in asylums.

Then of course we had all those young women who got pregnant out of wedlock and got sent to mother and baby homes, where their babies were either sold or didn’t survive. No suffering for the men who got these women pregnant though! All too often these were women who were taken advantage of by men who should have known better.

Divorce wasn’t allowed. If you married a beast, you stayed with him. Battered women shut up and put up.

Then there was the marriage bar.

In 1893 women typists who worked for the civil service campaigned to be made permanent in the their jobs. The government agreed. However, the agreement came with a clause. Their contract would be terminated if they were to marry. They wouldn’t receive a pension; instead they would be paid a month’s salary for each year worked, and only for a maximum of twelve months. This was merely a sweetener to reduce the temptation to stay single.

This ‘rule’ supported societal attitudes that women should stay at home and men should provide for the family.

School teacher Maureen Cronin from County Clare, defied the marriage ban and continued to work for a year without pay. During this time she was ignored by the school inspectors, and barely acknowledged by parents. She was eventually dismissed from her job. When the Bishop got involved he was appalled that she had worked for a full year without pay. He took a trip to Dublin and returned with her salary.

After that Maureen was allowed to work part-time but not full-time. She got a job teaching music in a protestant school and continued to fight for the ban to be lifted. It was lifted in 1958 and married school teachers returned to work.

The marriage ban remained for the rest of the public sector workers until 1973.

There are many great Irish women who fought for equal rights in our country—although we’re not fully there yet.

Dr Kathleen Lynn 1874—First female doctor at the Royal Victoria Eye and Ear Hospital. Founder of St Ultan’s Children’s Hospital. She was a member of the Irish Women’s Suffrage and Local Government Association.

Lilian Bland 1878—the ‘Flying Feminist’. In 1910 she designed and constructed the first biplane in Ireland; The Mayfly. She flew it herself making her the first woman to fly an aircraft in Ireland. To date there are 64,979 female pilots in the world. Thank you Lilian for showing the world that women can do anything!

Rosie Hackett 1893—an Irish rebel and trade union founder of the Irish Women Worker’s Union. She was a member of the Irish Citizen Army and an activist in the 1916 rising.

Hannah Sheehy Skeffington born 1903—one of our great suffragettes, who co-founded the Irish Women’s Franchise League and later a founding member of the Irish Women Workers Union.

Maureen Cronin 1916—advocate for the abolishment of the marriage ban for school teachers.

Mary Robinson 1944—the first female to be elected as President of Ireland in 1990. She fought for the right to make contraceptives legally available in Ireland, and she passed the bill of decriminalising homosexuality. She was also involved in the fight for the removal of the marriage ban.

Thank you to these women and all the others around the world. Strong women are getting stronger!

From all the great women in today’s post, Lucy decided she’d like to draw Dr Kathleen Lynn.

I’m linking this post to Marsha Ingrao’s weekly Writer’s Quotes Wednesdays (#WQW) #9 Women in History.

Tasheenga & Glo Will Revisit The Sex Scene at a Later Date!

I can’t take all the credit for writing 50,000 words in a month. It took discipline, perseverance, dedication and the ability to say no to unnecessary social outings. (Unnecessary?) Gloria has all those things and is very capable of exercising these wonderful talents when she puts her mind to it. Me – not really! She shoves me into a box when she means business and I’ll tell you, it’s suffocating. However, she needs me for this novel.

Between the two of us, we’ve been scribbling notes here and there, writing half chapters in notebooks and we thought it was well on until we signed up for NaNoWriMo2017. That’s when we realised two things;

  1. We weren’t as well on as we thought because when we gathered up our notes and bits of chapters, we had about 1,000 words! 49,000 to go just to win NaNo and about another 40,000 after that. Luckily it was all in the head – very mixed up but there nonetheless.
  2. We are both in conflict with this novel. I want more laughing moments in it and Glo wants all this heartbreak and pain and revenge…… shocking depressing!

Even though taking part in NaNo was exciting and fulfilling, there were a few times when the word count wasn’t as we hoped and the winner’s badge seemed like it was at the end of a rainbow.

At one point Glo looked like she was the oldest character in the book. Maud aged 88. Going around with wild fuzzy hair, the grey strands getting longer each day as they struggled to rid themselves of the clinging stains of Clariol Nice’n Easy. Each evening she sat huddled at the fire wrapped in the Galway shawl. When the laptop wasn’t on her lap, it was a book called “Are The Irish Different?” (Yes Glo, they sure are, which is why I pretend I’m from India)

During week 3 she let me out of my box to help with a sarcastic scene, and I immediately dragged her kicking and screaming into the shower. (I don’t lie.) If someone had called to the house unexpectedly, seriously, authorities may have got involved.

In Brief 

Two sisters, Rose and Nancy, are abandoned at a young age by their cruel mother shortly after their father dies. Their aunt takes them in and although she’s very strict, she looks after them as best she can. Their childhood affects both of them differently as the years pass by. As young adults, they experience love, pain, disappointment and regrets.

They have a friend called Kathleen, who I invented – me, Tasheenga – because she’s a bit of a laugh. And there’s a couple of other characters who might not stay. We’ll see how they get on!

Then there’s Nancy. Now she’s not as fortunate as Rose and her memories of her mother are not happy ones. Nancy has issues and low self-esteem and life is a dark sad place for her. I get to choose what decisions she makes! Although I haven’t decided on her fate just yet.

Conflict

In the middle of writing one particular scene, I insisted that Rose and Benny were mad to have…..you know….. ‘it’. They wanted to do ‘it’ there and then. Well, Glo nearly had a heart attack and almost went to mass to apologise for contemplating such a thing. She growled at me saying it was a bit early on a Sunday morning to be thinking about things like that. A quick text to Mohotma & Saphirra for advice; Saphirra said ‘A kiss and a cuddle will do them rightly‘ and Mohotma said ‘Let them at it.

I think part of the problem is that the story is set in rural Ireland in the early 1950s and you just didn’t discuss such things. There was plenty of it going on because boy they had big families back in those days. And with Glo wearing that hairy shawl around the house and drinking Guinness instead of wine, she’s getting too much into character. (Eye roll)

I suggested we put the scene to one side and the amateurs that we are, we’ll do a bit of research on how to write a sex love scene delicately and tastefully. Although I’ve got a feeling that I’ll be put back into the box when we revisit that particular chapter!

My Two Apostles

It was very exciting watching the word count rise as the days went on, keeping Mohotma Coatalay and Saphirra up to date with screenshots of our progress. With still a day and a half left, we validated our 50,000+ words and got the winner’s badge and certificate. Aw….the video at the end! Emotional!

At last, Glo and I have the first draft more or less completed. Yes, there’s so much more work to be done, revision, re-writes (stuff we don’t know about yet) but we are optimistic.

Mohotma Coatalay and Saphirra are happy to put up with my hangry episodes but just wait until they experience one of my writing frustration tantrums! If they still like me by the time I write ‘The End’ on the last page, then I’ll know that they’re my forever friends!

Throwing writing in the air